Asbury Park is Making a Comeback

Our family just got back from a beach weekend and we had an amazing time. We decided on Asbury Park, NJ because we wanted a clean beach close by, with activities for toddlers and not too crowded so we can relax on the beach. We picked the right place since it is only about 1hr 45mins away with a little traffic and since it is still being rebuilt it wasn't too crowded. My family has spent many a summer in Wildwood NJ and that area gets very crowded and is best suited for older kids who can enjoy the rides and young adults who like to party. This beach in NJ was right on the money and it had lots to offer from toddlers to tweens. There is a playground right on the beach and a great sprinkler park on the boardwalk along with miniature golf, a museum arcade and yummy ice cream.

We had lots of fun playing on the sand and everyone we encountered was very nice. The water was refreshing and clean (except for after the rainstorm - and then it had some leaves and large waves - to be expected). It is such a short trip from NYC that I was surprised that it wasn't a mad-house. In town there are some great restaurants and bars, very Gay friendly, and a few art and home decor shops. My only complaint was that there wasn't much choice in hotels near the boardwalk and The Berkeley Oceanfront left much to be desired in cleanliness but had plenty of space to pack a large family into.

If you have time you must visit the very nearby town of Ocean Grove. It has gorgeous old Victorian houses and many have been turned into Bed and Breakfasts' or Inns. The beach is beautiful along the boardwalk here as well, and just a couple of blocks down Main Ave there is an adorable row of shops and an amazing Ice Cream Shoppe called Nagle's Apothecary Cafe. After ice cream you can head to the Cards and Gifts store across the street and get some cute toys and beach souvenirs that won't break the bank. Skip the shops on the boardwalk that are way overpriced.

While visiting the beach area why not head into town for some glassblowing. Hot Sand has a great glassblowing studio where you can see a demonstration or even get involved. They have great items for kids to make as keepsakes and would make a great gift for the holidays. We didn't get a chance to partake but we definitely be in there next visit. I really wanted to make a mold of my son's hand to have as a paperweight.

As we were leaving they were setting up a carnival which I'm sure would have been a lot of fun. With the live music, history, artsy folks and great restaurants we totally recommend it and will be returning soon.

Froggy boots

I decided to follow my son's lead today beginning with allowing him to chose his outfit for the day. He decided on his new froggy rain boots, striped pajama pants and a new red T, topped with pink beads. We had fun at the playground and hopping on the sidewalks and in and out of shops. Hopping like a frog! So adorable.

Funtopia USA - Queens Play Arcade

Funtopia USA is a great place to take toddlers and young children during the week when it is rainy or cold. The fee is $7 per child during the week ($9 weekend and holidays) and you get a free return visit if you save your receipt and bring it back within 30 days.
We usually spend a few dollars extra on games and bring a couple small soft balls to play with in the kids area. The place is large and well maintained. They have two designated play areas, one for younger children with slides, a small climbing area and tunnels and one is a very large climbing area with slides, tubes and ropes. Both areas are great for active play and fine tuning those motor skills and children who need to expel energy every day. The areas are matted and closed in so that you can always keep an eye on your little one and not worry about them getting lost. It can be a bit loud when it is busy with kids yelling and all of the arcade games and music but it is worth it when you have energetic kids who don't wish to be stuck in your apartment on rainy days. Going early and during the week is best so it isn't too crowded. It is best to drive to the location but there are buses and it is located at the last stop on the M train which is right next to the Metro Mall shopping Center. When arriving be sure to go down the ramp on the right side of the mall and park in the back of the mall because that is where the entrance to the mall is and where you can access Funtopia and the other shops.
We had our sons birthday party here and while it was plenty of fun I would highly recommend this type of party place for older children (age 6 - 10) and ask to have the room decorated before you arrive. The staff was a little disorganized and very busy because of multiple parties on a busy weekend but accommodated all of our requests with a smile. The laser tag and bumper cars sound like fun but of course were too old for our toddler partygoers. When my son gets older I would choose this place again and include all of the extras offered.

FuntopiaUSA.com
66-26 Metropolitan Avenue
Middle Village NY, 11379

Hours:
Mon - Thrs: 10am - 8pm
Fri - Sat: 10am - 10 pm
Sun: 10am - 9pm
FREE Parking

NYC Mommy's Recipe : Grilled Chicken with Olive Topping

Last year I came across a recipe that I liked but decided to tweak a little for some added flavor (and I had a lot of cilantro in the house).  I am so glad I did because this new recipe has turned into one of our favorite meals at home. It is tasty, pretty easy to make, and yummy.

Ingredients: 
3 cloves of garlic - minced
1/2 cup of fresh cilantro
1 cup of Kalamata olives - pitted
1 tsp of red wine vinegar
1 tbsp of extra virgin olive oil
1 tsp of crushed black pepper (or to taste)
Brown or white rice
Thin cut chicken breast
salt to taste

Directions:
(You can probably use the processor for these steps)
Chop olives into small pieces
Chop garlic
Chop cilantro
Mix all of the above with red wine vinegar and olive oil
Top with crushed black pepper and mix in a bowl and place aside

Rub trimmed chicken with olive oil, salt and pepper
( I like to use Kosher salt because its a little coarser and gets the flavor into the chicken)
Pan sear the chicken on medium heat and cook until the chicken has almost no pink showing and then turn over. Both sides should be light brown and crispy. (Takes about 7 or 8 mins each side)

Top the chicken with the olive topping and serve with rice.

Enjoy and let me know how you like it!

P.S. My Husband got me this food processor for the holidays and I love it -

My Sleeping Shopper

 

my sleeping shopper

He was so tired after a day of play but we had to run out to the market to grab a few last minute items. He fell asleep in the car on the way there and I forgot my stroller so I laid him down in the cart thinking he would wake right up and the little guy just conked out. My amazing little boy makes me smile again and again.

A Trip Just for Mommy : Finally Home

I recently took a small vacation for just Mommy. I went to Florida to visit friends and get a day of relaxation and I definitely recommend it. Daddy watched the baby so I could go and catch up and relax. I was extremely worried about leaving my son because it was the first weekend overnight trip without Mommy but I knew he was in safe hands.
When you get caught up in the everyday craziness of raising a toddler you can get pushed over the edge so it is good to hit the pause button, relax and reflect. I have realized over this trip that my life has changed greatly over the past few years. I have a toddler, I am married, I've grown up. Thinking about this made me smile because I could not wait to start my own family when I was younger and have that unconditional love of my family unit. Growing up adopted I always had my doubts about how much my family loved me. I know they had love but there is always that insecurity and families being disfunctional as they are (especially mine) didn't make me have any extra comfort in those feelings. Having a family of my own has filled this sort of hole in my heart and it is really the most amazing feeling. It is a feeling of being safe, warm and happy.
With this new found feeling of solidarity and family comes a lot of changes in my self. I find that things I used to like to do I no longer feel are important. I don't need to see the latest movies or eat at the coolest new restaurants. It isn't imperative that I purchase the latest style trends (well not for me anyway). I do like to hang out with my friends but going out partying is not a priority any longer. Perhaps this is temporary but for now spending that time sleeping is more enticing! I do know that making time for girlfriends and talking is important to keep relationships and friendships alive and I still have to work on finding that balance.
The trip I took was very relaxing and it felt great having time to myself and not have to worry about someone else the whole time. Not worrying if my son was cold, hungry or tired. Not having to deal with stinky poop diapers, temper tantrums, or getting hit in the head with toys. That time away to take a breath was great. On the plane ride home however I realized how much I really missed my family and could not wait to get back. I was so overwhelmed with emotion that actually started to tear up because I missed them so much (and my plane anxiety kicked in a little bit). I am so glad to have a family of my own, I finally feel that I am HOME.

Apartment Living: Toys for Toddlers

It's the holiday season. The turkey has been eaten and the Black Friday holiday shoppers were trampled but some are still searching for the perfect toys for our little boys and girls. I have found that the following toys get a lot of playtime action these days.

 

Ipad 2

LeapPad or Ipad - He uses mine whenever I am not looking so I finally gave up and downloaded some great learning apps for him. I mostly get the free ones but I did buy two educational apps for his birthday and he loves it! Ipad 2

Make Believe toys - My son loves to play in the kitchen, push shopping cart or stroller and pretend to vacuum. At the play dates the vacuum is the toy all the boys fight over. I hope he can learn to use the real one and keep the vacuuming passion going which is why this one is definitely on our wishlist!

A fold-able play tent and tunnel is perfect to get those jitters out when it is too cold for outdoor activities and it folds easily and stores right under the couch.